Interview with Brenda James

First off, for those who might not know you, what is your name and please describe yourself?

I am Brenda James, a 37 year old, 36-26-36C German/Norwegian MILF. I have blond hair and blue eyes. I am 5″8″ and about 135 lbs. I was born in South Dakota and live in the Midwest still. I absolutely hate the weather here and am looking to move soon! I have two children and am on my second and last marriage. I appreciate the honest hard working ethics I have picked up from living in the Midwest though. L.A. would be a hard place for me to live, but it’s fun to visit. I am sarcastic, yet friendly and love to laugh at myself.

How did you first get into the adult industry?

It was a dare from my now husband! I was getting pissed off at how much time he spent looking at other girls on porn sites. I said what are you looking at that for when you have me! He said if you think your so special why don’t you do it. Ok then, so I did! Previously I was working as a home health aide for quadriplegics. I have done that job off and on for 8 years. I have also been a mainstream model for about 20 years, and still work for a network I can’t name. I wait for the day they find out. I hope it is on air, that would be the best!

What made you interested in entering the adult industry?

The hours and pay were incentives. I have always been into sex and feel most comfortable with very little clothes on. I adore lingerie.

Are there any people in the industry that you would love to work with but haven’t had a chance to yet? If so who are they?

I really really really want to shot for some magazines. Photography is my favorite. Good hair and make-up along with awesome lingerie and an amazing photographer is always a dream for me. I have to say though, I don’t really think about actors/talent too much. I don’t want to be in awe of anyone to the point of it interfering with me being able to act natural on screen. It is the same reason I don’t watch porn. I don’t want to imitate anyone. I want it all to be as natural and raw as it can be on camera.

Tell us about the first scene you ever did in porn, please.

The first shoot was going to be an anal scene too boot! Well I was a bit nervous, but not as much as the male talent I guess. The young guy could not get and stay hard. He was so freaked out. Come to find out we graduated from the same high school too. I come all the way from the Midwest to do a guy from my home town. Anyways, the real first shoot was the next day. It was pretty much as I had expected. I just had no idea how to have sex for the camera. The lingo was a bit of a challenge, “show me pink”, “open up to camera” etc. The funniest part was after the pop shot I wiped the cum off my face. Everyone started yelling and carrying on! I had no idea we had to shoot stills with dripping cum on my face! I think everyone wanted to kill me.
It was funny to me though!

Have you thought about doing feature dancing? If you already do, how is that going and do you like it more than performing on camera?

I can’t dance to save my soul! I would love to be able to, but I can’t. I can take an amazing photo though, so a poster or calendar would be fun for me.

What sort of things haven’t you done on camera yet? Are you planning on doing them soon or is it more of a “We will wait and see”?

I haven’t done any DP’s or gang bangs. I love doing DP’s at home with my husband and a dildo, but it looks complicated in real life. Gang bang, I just don’t know about that one. I think my husband would have more issues with a gang bang than I would. I’ll work on it.

How do you feel about the MILF label that gets attached to you and other ladies of your age in the industry?

I love it, and am very protective of it. I don’t like the fact that now there are 23 year olds with a child calling themselves MILF’s. Having a child doesn’t qualify you in my book. I am a the real deal. A married woman, middle aged, lives in the burbs, has some kids, does the soccer stuff,
PTA stuff, and is happily married. I just have another side that loves to fuck other people on camera when possible.

What, if any, fantasies do you have?

Oh every time I conjure up a fantasy, it goes onto a DVD! I guess my fantasies include my husband or a lover now a days. I get to have all the fun, absurd sex, on camera. Now it would be fun do have some intense emotional sex on top of it. There is a certain amount of intimacy on
set, there has to be, but it isn’t the same. I would like my husband to watch me get fucked in the ass by a friend of his. I would like to see how he would act. I would like him to be jealous for once! I would like to see him get hard and excited. I would like the friend to come all over my back, then have my husband step in and fuck me doggy style and roll me over to cum in my mouth. I am very jealous of my man being with another woman so it would have to be another man with us.

How would you like to see your career progress in the future?

I would like to have some longevity. I want to really take some time and build up my web site, and work on starting some more. I want to have very interactive web sites. There are so many ideas I have for sites it is amazing. Again I would really like to be in a magazine or two. I hope to be well known for sure. To have people that follow your movies and web site, is such a cool thing. I never take their compliments for granted. I get turned on knowing others get turned on by me. Yes it is twisted but what the hell. Knowing someone has an amazing orgasm while they are looking at me or listening to my voice gets me so wet.

When did you lose your virginity?

I was 15. It was one of those things where I just wanted to get it over with. All boys wanted to do was fuck, and I got so tired of the pressure from the guys that I just did it. Well it lasted all of 2 minutes and hurt bad. I was wondering why anyone would ever want to do it? Eventually I had a few more encounters and ooh la la.

What sort of things were you interested in outside of work?

I am a beach baby. I so enjoy hanging out on a beach. I have huge gardens around my house, which I built, that I work on all summer. Most of all I want to know how to do everything myself. I don’t like to call anybody to fix stuff. I can change a tire, roof a house, build a deck, change a diaper, play sports and am a great wife and mom. I want to be as self reliant as possible.

Can you share a silly or embarrassing story for our fans?

Just recently we were finally filming the pop shot after an extremely long day. After the pop shot everyone was kind of quiet and hanging their heads, they were kind of bummed. I’m like “What’s up guys?” Then they said “Well, there was a big squirt at the end.” A squirt? Huh? Isn’t he supposed to squirt? What the hell I thought? Well, I guess when he took his cock out of me to shoot cum on my face I squirted out like Niagara Falls! I had no idea this could be a bad thing, cause it felt so good, but apparently the company we were working for has a problem with that sort of thing. God bless Brad Hardey, he said I can cum again and did in about 3 minutes flat. We got the pop shot, resolving the squirting “crisis”.

Are there any projects or special events coming up that you would like to promote, if so please do so?

My web site www.BrendaJamesxxx.com is what I am working on most. I did a squirting video for JM Productions that will be out in August, and there is a new Naughty America scene “My First Sex Teacher” it’s my second one, is up today. I just hope that people know that they can really effect how much a company books me by writing in and asking for me. It is a simple thing yet it works so well.