Author: Venus Lux

VENUS RISING: Woman On Top

Hello, Lovers! As you all know, I am a woman who owns my own business and am very hands on. I create my content, oversee my website and make every decision on my own. Yet when I try to talk shop with men in the Industry, they treat me as if I’m just some chick that gets fucked on film. As if I had no business sense whatsoever. For the many reasons I have listed here, I know I am more than capable and feel that my gender actually blinds males around me from taking me seriously. When I...

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VENUS RISING: This is a Man’s World

Hello Lovers! Being a part of the surge of transsexual culture has been amazing. I have met so many positive people and had amazing experiences over the past decade. I am so grateful to be on this side of history and able to enjoy my life comfortably in my own skin. However, being the ‘third sex’ can also be like wearing a ‘Scarlet A’ at times . Judgements are made and accusations are thrown perpetually about the nature of a trans person before they even open their mouth to speak. I think this is more than being transsexual though....

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VENUS RISING: Inside Me

Hello, Lovers! The interesting thing about porn is you bare yourself to the world. It is literally as naked as you can be physically, yet it creates a smokescreen of sorts. When I sit down with fans or get interviewed it becomes clear that people don’t know the first thing about me. Thankfully, as each question unfolds they want to dig deeper. One of the reasons I write this column is to express my true self.  So this week I thought I’d write a bit about the “real” me and I suppose the first thing you need to know...

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VENUS RISING: The Trend of Trans

Hello Lovers, It seems like over the past few years transitioning in America has escalated in acceptance and acknowledgement at an amazing rate. When I was transitioning, and not that long ago I might add, the plethora of information that is easily accessible to those struggling with gender was not yet available, and peers and mentors were scarce if not unheard of. Now, this flood of information is bringing forth misinformation and myths that have little to do with the reality of how and why someone makes this life altering choice. The term transgender is not one I use...

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VENUS RISING: The TS Romance Myth

Hello Lovers! There are some quintessential moments in one’s life when you realize certain beliefs you held tried and true are just mythical. There is no Santa Claus , Unicorns aren’t real and romance does not exist for transsexuals. Yeah, you heard me. The illusion is shattered. But let me tell you why. What fucked this up for me entirely was a day that I went out for a simple walk, doing errands and minding my own business. A man began to walk beside me, chatting me up and asked me for my number. Now, I am not one...

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