The interesting thing about porn is you bare yourself to the world. It is literally as naked as you can be physically, yet it creates a smokescreen of sorts. When I sit down with fans or get interviewed it becomes clear that people don’t know the first thing about me. Thankfully, as each question unfolds they want to dig deeper. One of the reasons I write this column is to express my true self. So this week I thought I’d write a bit about the “real” me and I suppose the first thing you need to know about me is, this lady has layers.
First and foremost, I am a business woman. It’s not just a job for me, it’s my identity. These movies don’t make themselves. It’s a hustle and grind. Instead of sitting back and letting someone else take the reins, I am in full control of my career. Producer, Director, CEO…it’s hard to balance it all but I am building an empire and I have to stay focused and on point. I definitely work more than I play but I love what I do. If that makes me a workaholic, so be it.
I am an activist and educator. I spend a good portion of my time spreading the word about transsexualism and dispelling the myths surrounding it. I am passionate about introducing transgender education into American school systems. Knowledge is power and enables love and understanding. I love being a part of the TS empowerment movement and building the platform that current and future generations will speak from.
I want to find true love. Seriously. I just haven’t found the right fit yet. I do have high standards and a long list, but I feel everyone should have what they desire and deserve. I’ve looked around a lot, been on many a fix up, internet matched, and a even a few blind dates and I still haven’t found what I am looking for. I’m sure my soulmate is out there, I’m just concerned that he’s trapped on a glacier in Antarctica. I know you can’t rush it along, but I look forward to the day I have someone to build a future and family with. So, if you have a hot brother…
I am living proof that there is much more to a person that does porn than just sex. There’s more to every human being than meets the eye. I want to encourage everyone to scratch below the surface. Life moves so quickly these days that we don’t take a moment to look beyond face value and judge and define those around us too easily. If there’s something you’ve always wanted to know about me but were afraid to ask visit www.venus-lux.com and drop me an email.