Interview with performer / producer Paul Stalker

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– Hello, for those who might not know you please let us know who you are and describe yourself?

I am Paul Stalker, a 42 guy hailing from Brussels, Belgium.

Well, I always like to say that I am kinda the “average boy next door”. I am just a regular Belgian guy, a fan of porn who likes to experience new things – likes sex obviously! – and who wanted to make a jump into the adult industry as a new professional challenge… So I did.

I just do some kind of “D.I.Y.” independent porn where I would like every guy could figure out “Wow! That could be me! I also could meet that girl in the street or on Holidays…!” And actually… Yes, if I can do it, you could do it as well!

– What prompted you to join the adult industry?

I started with something which is basically in my humble opinion a “must” step for a man to be able to have sex in front of people watching, or having group sex…: swingers clubs!

I used to be a strong swingers parties addict before getting into “the industry”! 

Couples started to ask me for private meetings, sometimes I was asked to take pictures in the “action”, so I started to play with that, like stopping moving, opening hips to have good angles for the camera, etc… Then I did some private movies for a few couples. As apparently, I was good at doing this, I was more and more told like: “Hey, you really should try to get into porn!”. It was a kind of dream or I would say fantasy of joining some so difficult to reach industry… but I always liked challenges! I was just not absolutely sure of really willing to leave my image on the net like that for the dawn of times…! (laugh ). At one swingers party, I organized, I met a nice black Belgian guy who came at that time as a client, we did double penetration on some girl with other people playing around or watching. After that he told me he was a professional actor, he was shooting for Mariska, other Belgian and French productions and was just starting to make a name into the two capitals of porn in Europe, Budapest and Prague as he was just back from Rocco’s studio with a new trailer of his first video for some Rocco’s Evilangel scene with him inside, he showed me the trailer: “Yeah, it’s me there dude! And you should definitely try this, not everyone can make some double vaginal with condoms in front of people watching like that!”

2 months later, I answered a couple’s advertisement on a swinger’s website that was looking for amateurs actors to try out for shooting content for their pornhub channel. That was Belgian model Cathy Crown who had some name in Belgium. As I had nice pictures and short videos samples from swingers couples, I applied and did 3 scenes in 3 weeks for them. So I had some material to show to other productions, I created a Twitter profile and I tagged during 3 months long all the directors’ names I knew at that time. One day, I had a message from Philippe Soine, who actually almost a neighbor at that time (since then I moved out of Brussels), and the day after I was on a set with 2 girls, 2 or 3 others guys for my first professional shoot for a Dorcel movie. I shot a few others after, then some other productions as well but I quickly came up with the idea of producing my own stuff.

– How long have you been in the industry?

Really not a long time, I am still a newcomer with a humbling lot of things to learn in this industry…! Hmmm… wait, I guess I shot my 3 scenes for Cathy Crown in June or July 2018, I was already almost 39, which is kinda already aged to start to try to make a name in porn, and especially in a country like Belgium where – excuse me! – but the porn business is basically doesn’t exist…! I think I can count producers on the fingers of only one hand! Then take into consideration the Covid Lockdown with nothing during months… I started filming my first videos during the 2 lockdowns break of summer 2020, then I came back into business a few months. That’s it!

– You are producer and performer, that gives more freedom I think or am I wrong?

Absolutely! I think you summarized everything with this question and why I decided to produce myself! Even if it was an honor to be given a chance to appear in some other productions and with all due respect to them, I quickly came to the conclusion that I didn’t like to be directed. I had some shoots that haven’t been pleasant at all for me as a performer… or even could I say as a “human being”! Yes, today I completely feel free to do and create what I just want to do, to choose the models I wish to shoot with. I like to travel, making city trips, so when travels were easier again I did the first trip to Budapest, a city I had still never been to before, and I got contact with a model booking agency there who has been immediately seduced by my idea: regular boy-girl scenes (“one-on-one’s “) shot by an average tourist guy filming himself in the city and trying to pick up a girl to go back to his hotel with! I think it’s the dream of everyone to make that every single day! (laugh )

But most of all, what drives me the most today is to develop my business ideas, my website,… After a complicated and lazy covid period, I finally have something to do of my days, busy weeks full of appointments between é shooting trips, to make my brain functioning again (like replying to this interview! Thank you a lot by the way for giving me this opportunity and visibility!)

– What’s the hardest thing about your job?

Hmmm… Maybe sometimes concealing the psychology aspect of some models, not every girl reacts the same, has the same feeling into same situations… I made some beginner mistakes or clumsiness, some girls don’t have the same sense of humour or whatever… So, yeah, it’s an aspect that doesn’t have to be neglected and I learned from some mistakes. On the physical aspect, of course, it’s not all the time easy, but when I am on a shooting trip I try to shoot as much as possible to bring back a lot of scenes and make my trip profitable, so I have indeed the freedom to plan everything like I want to do, but yeah… I like to shoot a lot of beautiful girls (laugh ), so sometimes I shoot 2 scenes a day for 4-5 days in a row (that’s what I did for “Prague Season 1 Episodes 1 to 8… I said “never again!”, but I continue like an idiot! ). Then I come back home exhausted… for one week of “holidays”! (laugh )

– What was your first scene like?

I will not speak about the Cathy Crown one which is not a professional production and only with amateur guys taken from the swinger website and for most of them shooting with masks (which I didn’t on 1st one with her btw! I wanted to be recognized to get hired by other prods’…), so I will take the example of the first one directed by Philippe Soine for one of his Dorcel series in swingers clubs. We shot in one of the only swingers clubs of Brussels where I actually started to go as a customer years ago so I was happy to shoot in a known environment. It was a club scene in 2 parts with 2 girls and 2 or 3 guys. With the first girl, I had to opportunity to take the “lead” on the action, so I guess I did a good performance for a really first shoot. It was a little bit more complicated for the 2nd girl, but I could make “something” but I couldn’t make it to cumshot! (laugh ) . Well, I will not lie. I am definitely not the best for cumshots! (laugh ). That’s also a point about making my own productions where I am alone, filming everything myself: I can make my cumshots without problems now that I work for myself!

– How did you come up with your stage name?

Hahaha, well, I know it sounds a bit ridiculous but when I shot my really first scene with Cathy, I had to sign papers and had to find a stage name (or not, but it’s definitely better, LoL ). I was thinking about what name I could choose and I think the day before the actor Paul Walker from the Fast & Furious franchise movies just passed away. A woman in a shop I was visiting for my previous commercial job at that time told me “hey, you kinda have the look-alike this actor, Paul “something” who died yesterday…!”. I have been like “Uh… thanks for the compliment! (laugh )”. The 2nd part of where the stage name comes from is that one day at a concert a friend told me when I came to interrupt his conversation with a pretty girl in order to present myself, he told me I was a “stalker”! (laugh ). I said “What does that mean?”, I had to check on the internet and I was like “Wow, OK! ) “I don’t think I am like that but anyway”. So as I like the jokes with words, I combined this and it became “Paul Stalker”. Which is a little making sense today in the end with this tourist idea, “stalking” girls in the street to get them back into the bed (laugh ) .

– What’s your favorite position on camera and in your personal life?

On camera, definitely the “reverse cowgirl”. It really looks good on video! I like the spoon as well but you have to choose a good angle to be exciting to watch and vary the position of the legs, etc… In my private life, spoon as well and a simple missionary is definitely the best!

– What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?

Wow! So many nasty things! (laugh ). But I think the kinkiest and extreme things I ever did is the champagne in the ass of Daphne Klyde and the milk puking in deepthroat, finishing by her head in the toilet and flushed out on Spanish amazing performer Venom Evil… Definitely one of my most hardcore scenes ever! I will try to top this or combine all of this with Jureka Del Mar when I’ll shot her.. .but “Shhh, that’s still a secret!” (laugh )

– Like most other performers you shoot your own content where do you sell it, and where can people interested in you find you?

As I said previously, my own website is still finishing to be developed. I don’t know when this interview will be released, it will maybe still not be online as things take time to be well done and I had to change web developer during the summer, but I will already give the address: www.stalker-prodz.com

My trailers and some selected content will also be available on www.paulstalker.com

I was figuring out creating manyvids, onlyfans but… I don’t know! I don’t honestly think that those platforms are good things for the industry… Maybe for a lot of girls, but not for the Companies and small producers like me… Maybe I will do but I have been so lazy creating accounts on those stuff! ( laugh ). I had that part of the job… maybe I will do for some selected content that will not appear on my website, who knows!

– What kind of content do you like to shoot ?

I like everything! Really, from regular Boy-girl vaginal, anal,… I like hardcore stuff as I previously said but I can’t shoot that genre all the time! Hmmm… well, I am good at pissing, actually! Really better than in cumshots (laugh )

– What advice would you give someone who wants to start creating content?

It depends on a lot of things, first if it’s a guy or a girl. And what kind of content… I mean if a guy wants to create content and make easy money if he has a nice physique and can attract a gay community audience, my advice would be: “yeah then go on Onlyfans, Manyvids,…” and just do your stuff, you know. For a girl alone, it’s a little bit the same kind of situation…

But for a guy who wants to try to get into the business and hire models like me, I would say “Think about a concept, don’t pretend to revolutionize the whole industry – because you won’t ! – but try to bring some originality, something new on the table”, but most of all: MAKE IT BECAUSE YOU LOVE IT! Be passionate, stay humble, hire good people and work with people who do some parts of the job that you hate or are incompetent to do (editing for example). Its hard to push to the first door of this industry but when it’s done, you’ll find 5 doors behind waiting to be opened, and so on…!

oh yeah, and don’t be an asshole! (laugh )

– Who are some of the people you would like to work with, but you haven’t had the chance to yet?

All the American goddesses! (laugh ). But that’s in my plans for 2022, 2023… When the situation will allow Europeans to travel more easily in the U.S.A., my dream is to go there in L.A., Las Vegas, Miami and shoot a special season of my “Sex-capes” series, for sure!

If you want names, I don’t know…: of course Angelina White! Also Adriana Checkik, Abella Danger,…

In Europe, Barbie Sins, Tina Kay,…

– What’s one thing about you that people might be surprised to learn?

When I go out in the “civil world”, now that I have been to so many swingers parties, and now the porn industry, I am kind of a shy guy of lost his words when it comes to seducing a girl in a bar or during a date… I am not that much confident in myself concerning “regular dates”!

– Are there any projects or special events coming up that you would like to promote, if so, please do so?

There is only my website that gonna pop up really soon to face of the whole galaxy so I tell it again here :

www.stalker-prodz.com will be updated with a least 2 scenes a week.

I shot more than 60 scenes until now, and it’s not going to slow down because after answering this interview, I take a plane to Madrid for 5 scenes, I go to Berlin for 4 scenes beginning of October, I return quickly for a few shoots in Budapest, in between all of this I also shoot sole local models from Belgium, Netherlands, France, in my home studio in my house of Charleroi. (MODELS WHO WISH TO SHOOT FOR STALKER PRODZ feel free to send a mail to paulxstalker@hotmail.com ) . Then I will go two times to Prague for entire weeks, end of October and in December. Then I think I am done for the year! (laugh )

Paul Stalker, Sivila Dellai, Eveline Dellai, Jennifer Mendez, Lady Gakg, Daphne Klyde, Jarushka Ross

– As a producer you worked with a lot of stars, what who were your best experiences?

I am really blessed to have worked with amazing models until now! it’s pure happiness! Maybe it’s actually one of the most surprising things is to have noticed how cool and easy-going all those girls are in cities like Prague and Budapest!

– What star is on top of your list to work with.

Do you mean in the future? If I can make a scene with Adriana Chechik, I think I can die in peace! (laugh )

– If models want to work with you, how can they contact you, and what is it you look for in a model ,

I will create my own models’ agency to send local models to the eastern countries, and make the intermediate agent bring girls from there to Belgium, Holland, etc… Same thing, girls, if you are interested in joining this project feel free to mail me at paulxstalker@hotmail.com

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